My Spouse is an Addict!!

So this weeks show was on Addiction. Normally when you think about addiction you immediately correlate it with alcohol or drug abuse. On tonight's show even though we mostly spoke on those forms of abuse we also gave you some other addictions to think about such as web, phone, shopping, vanity, and money. Addiction comes in all forms and more shockingly were the stats that we gave our listeners. What was most shocking to me was the fact that the US makes up 5% of the world population yet consumes over 60% of illegal drugs in the world. WOW!!!! That's crazy... It's sad to view facts like these and see the difference in the percentages. Another sad fact is that violent behavior attributed to alcohol use accounts for roughly 49% of murders, 52% of rapes, 21% of suicides and 60% of child abuse. So most substance abusers aren't even committing violence against themselves. It's the children and innocent people they are harming. If you or someone you know has a problem try to get them help. Express that you care and try to have others around to help initiate some form of intervention. save a life today, but remember to protect yourself as well. You don't to be harmed in the process of trying to help someone out. They have to want to be helped as well. Well guys be on the lookout for part two of our addiction series. It can only get better from here. Also by following one of the three links below you can like our FB Page, Listen to the show, and follow our show page... Until next time Insanity is when you do the same thing twice and expect different results!!!

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Cougars and Kittens

What's up with everyone? I pray you all had a blessed New Year and continue to be blessed. So tonight's show was about Cougars and Kittens and might I add it was not only informative but entertaining. I myself am a self-proclaimed kitten. My wife is 10+ years older than me and after being together over five years we have faced many obstacles and survived. From my prospective it is not so easy to maintain any relationship so with an age difference it can definitely add a strain. You must be committed to one another, be friends, and COMMUNICATE!!! You will not always agree, however you must love without limit and boundaries... That means flaws and all.. I think my thoughts on this topic were clear on the show tonight and if you get a chance take a moment, click the link below, enjoy, and give us your feedback.

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/freshleftovers/2013/01/10/cougars-kittens

SEX vs. LOVE

So I know I'm a little late with my blogs but honestly the holiday season has been CRAZY!!! Anyway to touch on our show topic Sex vs. Love I would first like to put out there; THERE IS A DIFFERENCE, so Learn it!! More often than not many of us get caught up in the physical appeal of someone and/or sexual connection; which in turn leaves us feeling empty or incomplete in the long run. Why? It's because we are a species that thrives off of physical contact and the theory of Love isn't taken as serious as it has been the past. It's so much easier to just hump than it is to put forth the effort and/or commitment required to make a lasting relationship work. It truly requires a lot of energy to love someone with your whole heart and not allow all the outside influences to interfere with your home life. As Panama (our featured guest) stated a lot of people don't take the time to get to know a person. They are more attracted to a persons persona and as a Dom dancer females are caught up on the character she portrays vs. the person she really is. Dahni made a great point when she said there are people out there who just love sex and that's all they are looking for. I completely agree with her however everyone needs to be honest with their intentions. If everyone remains honest it can reduce a lot of unwanted stress. Honesty is the best answer. So stay true to who you are and what you want. If you would like to review this episode the link is provided below.

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/freshleftovers/2012/12/13/sex-vs-love

Relationships and Road Blocks

Today's topic on Relationships and the many road blocks they face was one that anybody in a relationship could relate to. We not only named some of the factors but we also gave examples on how to not allow them to dictate your relationships. I truly enjoy our show because its honest and its raw. The caller was able to give first hand account on how exes, disloyalty, and lying can play an integral part in your life and relationship. If you have insecurity issues and a jealous you should consider checking yourself. Taking a strong look and reevaluating yourself as well as the things that cause you to feel the way you do because honestly you may be the block in the road that is hindering the growth of your relationship. Nobody is perfect and there aren't any perfect relationships but there are relationships that have the ability to last. However that is based on the two individuals involved. You have to learn when to hold them and when to fold them as my wife would say. Otherwise you will find yourself consistently fussing and fighting. As for our caller tonight I seriously empathize with her situation, but she has to take some responsibility in the fact that she still is considering putting up with this person that clearly can't be in love with her.  At least not at this moment. Not to say that at one point they weren't in love because clearly something was there considering her girlfriend asked her to marry her.  But apparently there are some unresolved feelings involved with the ex and they need to be addressed. If I was the caller, I would be thinking about myself and not trying to keep someone who clearly can't be faithful nor are they capable of being honest. Love is a two way street and  relationships take a tremendous amount of time and effort. Take it from me a woman who has been with their spouse for the last eight years through good, bad and ugly cause I'm not going to sit here and say that we haven't hit some bumps in the road. Ha!!!! That would be a lie, but the bottom line is love, devotion, dedication, honesty, and loyalty drive our relationship and if you don't begin by building a strong solid foundation your house will not be sturdy and you will continue to run into road blocks such as cheating, lying, groupies, and dishonesty... That's all for tonight. Time to hit the sheets. My wife is waiting and I'm thankful. Good Night loves!!! Be Blessed!! Direct link to show below: http://my.blogtalkradio.com/thefoxandkluradioshow/2012/12/06/relationships-road-blocks

I'm NOT Gay My Girlfriend IS!!!!

I was SUPER excited by this topic because honestly I was curious to know what my co-hosts thoughts were on this subject. Being a woman who has in the past had experiences with men and has been exclusively with women for the last decade; I was more curious as to why so many lesbians are interested in dating straight women. Is it the thrill? Or, like Dahni said the security of not having to commit. For me if you have been involved with a female(s) exclusively over a period of time you ARE a LESBIAN. You aren't pretending to lay up and have sex with the female over and over again. So why claim to be something you are clearly not. Being heterosexual to means that is your lifestyle preference and choice. You aren't just talking it. You are living it. OK, grant it you may still have a desire for men and may even catch you a bone every now and again or like an old friend of mines used to say "I just need to get one off my chest". But honestly wouldn't that make you more bisexual than anything else? At least for me my friend was honest. For her she was a lesbian who every 5, 6 years just wanted to jump on the pole. Now that is solely her decision and trust me it's not my preference however if she like it I love it... OK, I may have jumped the subject a bit. My point is that if you decide to date a women exclusively you should really take time to think about whether this is a lifetime thing or not because there are some like myself who aren't living this lifestyle just because. This is who we are and we take it very seriously. I'm curious to know your thoughts. What's your preference?

365 Giving Back

This weeks show was one of my favorites thus far. I enjoyed the show topic because I completely agree with what Dahni said in regards to giving back all year round just not the holiday season. More often than not we get so comfortable in our own lives that we tend not consider our neighbors or fellow humans or animals for that matter. I  commend Klu on her courage to go within the inner city and deovote not only her time but her heart. She is defintely a positve influence and doesnt just speak it she does it.Dahni warmed my heart with her confession of being compassionate enough just to check on her neighbors or fellow person. I am thankful to have them both as my co host because they truly are humbled spirits and they are both gifts from God. Not confused people who made a choice about their sexual lifestyle like Mr. Fischer stated. I chose him as the Salty donut of the day because he is an idiot. Im just waiting on the line of underaged boys to come out and speak the truth on him because nine out of ten times the same ones preaching out against homosexuals are the same one hiding in the closet and living under false pretenses! Its now 1:30 am and my wife is sleeping. I am tired but I just wanted to say how mucch I enjoyed the show this evening and also get out this blog before I took it down. In the words of my good friend Klu Insanity is when you do the same thing twice and expect a different result. Happy Thanksgiving BlogHearts!!

Stepping Out On Faith

So this is my first official blog. I have partnered with a friend of mines to start our first radio show together. For the past several years I have been working for the Post Office and let me tell you when they say "GOING POSTAL" that is exactly how you feel. I so many times felt like I was going to lose it. Now I am at a different point in my life and in this terrible economic world I am truly just wanting to follow my dreams. I have felt as if I am being selfish seeing as though my wife, (yes I said my wife) is our sole source of income. I actually have cried about it. How can you walk away from a steady income to pursue your dreams but honestly I felt so close to the edge at times; almost like I was losing it and going to snap. I prayed for guidance and I prayed for God to speak to me. I enthralled myself in activities such as Disabled American Veterans, starting a local Biggest Loser Challenge for the lgbt community, starting our Radio Show and now Blogging all the while I'm still looking for full time employement closer to home. Oh did I mention that my job transferred me over two hours away from home. Which in tell lead to me missing priceless moments with my wife and child. I made a very hard choice and yes I thought about it over and over. My goal is to attain my degree in Computer Systems Info & Tech, continue to work at my radio show, and blog while maintaining my household. Yesterday I was so discouraged and beating myself up about my decision and then I got a phone call from a friend. She is very ill and going through Chemo and she took a moment out of her day to call me and tell me she was proud of me and the things I am doing. When I tell you I cried like a baby and the next thing you know I was in my house shouting and praising the Lord! I asked for it and God came right out and confirmed it. I say that to say this that Faith is and forever will be a positive driving force in my life. When you feel like your back is against the wall and you have no where to turn; God will not only show up but he will show out. I hope this initial blog gives you some insight on who I am as a person and I hope you take some time out to listen to our radio show Fresh Leftovers "The Fox & Klu Radio Show". We will premier our first show Halloween evening at 9pm. Get ready for some insight, laughs, and truths... See you soon