I'm NOT Gay My Girlfriend IS!!!!

I was SUPER excited by this topic because honestly I was curious to know what my co-hosts thoughts were on this subject. Being a woman who has in the past had experiences with men and has been exclusively with women for the last decade; I was more curious as to why so many lesbians are interested in dating straight women. Is it the thrill? Or, like Dahni said the security of not having to commit. For me if you have been involved with a female(s) exclusively over a period of time you ARE a LESBIAN. You aren't pretending to lay up and have sex with the female over and over again. So why claim to be something you are clearly not. Being heterosexual to means that is your lifestyle preference and choice. You aren't just talking it. You are living it. OK, grant it you may still have a desire for men and may even catch you a bone every now and again or like an old friend of mines used to say "I just need to get one off my chest". But honestly wouldn't that make you more bisexual than anything else? At least for me my friend was honest. For her she was a lesbian who every 5, 6 years just wanted to jump on the pole. Now that is solely her decision and trust me it's not my preference however if she like it I love it... OK, I may have jumped the subject a bit. My point is that if you decide to date a women exclusively you should really take time to think about whether this is a lifetime thing or not because there are some like myself who aren't living this lifestyle just because. This is who we are and we take it very seriously. I'm curious to know your thoughts. What's your preference?